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Some warning signs for those searching for Asian brides.
These are only some indications that "may" mean you are being set-up for a dating scam. Taken by themselves they could be quite innocent, but they are some things you should watch out for:
The photos look too good. This doesn't mean that you should suspect every girl who has beautiful photos! But if the photo appears to have been scanned from a magazine, or she has a whole series of "model" shots which are just too perfect, it's wise to be suspicious.
Overly tender letters at the very beginning of your correspondence. For example if she calls you "My Darling", or signs her first letters to you "with love". Many men do this too, by the way. It may mean nothing at all, but it certainly could be a prelude to predation.
Vague letters with no or few questions about you. She may write very loving letters about how much she needs you, misses and loves you, yet doesn't seem interested in you personally. A lady seriously considering marriage with you will obviously have many questions! Her letters may become progressively sexual, and her photos more seductive. This is a common theme throughout the varying dating scams.
Hint's about how expensive Internet cafes are. They really are expensive, by the way. The majority of girls will have Internet access at work, or through a friend. They may pay someone for this service, but if they claim it's costing them $50 - $100 per month, you need to be suspicious.
A tragedy occurred and money is urgently needed. This is the "springing of the trap" and usually will happen after she's worked on you for awhile. The sob-story could be almost anything - one of her parents are ill, or her child, and they could die unless an expensive operation is performed. Her money was lost or stolen, the rent is due and she could be evicted and wind up on the streets. There are endless variations on this theme. Don't fall for it! Not unless you've met the girl and her family in person or otherwise know the story to be true. But if that was the case, you probably wouldn't be here reading this, would you? ;-)
She wants to visit you in the USA, and needs money for the visa/tickets. It's a scam, no questions. Grab your wallet and run ;-) While it is possible for a woman to obtain a tourist visa to visit the USA, it's very difficult, especially for a young lady.
What can I do to protect myself
Only use a reputable online Asian dating or chat service and follow the basic safety tips for online dating be skeptical and ask yourself simple questions like, 'why am I the only person who can help them but I have just met them?' test your date - ask them lots of questions, try to phone them or post them something or possibly suggest meeting them. If all attempts fail, you are probably dealing with a scammer.
- Don't send money! This is the golden rule of avoiding dating scams - follow it and you're safe!
- Don't make yourself a target for dating scammers by stressing your wealth or showing that you don't understand what's involved in marrying a foreign bride
- Do familiarize yourself with the warning signs
- Do let her know that you plan to visit her soon, and understand what's involved in marrying an Asian bride.